What if the union of two to one in a marriage doesn’t necessarily means living together, but giving up your individuality and your own visions for a new joint vision? What if marriage is just an effort to merge your goals and dreams of individuals to one of a couple, so that you both work towards achieving what is beneficial to both of you, unlike benefiting individuals? What if living together is just an arrangement of married people that they decided on as their preference, not as a must do?
Do you really think living together with your own individual goals will make a marriage succeed? Think about what marriage means to you and your partner. Decide on how you are going to make it work. Please don’t define marriage the way others have tried to define it. Please have your own interpretation and construct your own understanding that will make it possible and easy to stay in your marriage until death do you apart. RP Ntema
