I was helped by strangers and to thank them, they asked me to do the same when and where I can to others and I should also ask those that I have helped to be ready to help others. This is the only way we can help ourselves and our next generations. Remember, “what goes around comes back around”. You cannot help others without helping yourself directly or indirectly. Helping is an investment that goes a long way to be benefited by those who will be carrying your name. Its returns doesn’t have to come directly from people you personally help, but from people who were being helped by you.

So stop expecting people to bring back your help. They don’t owe you, except if they borrowed from you, but if they asked for help, remember you were once helped, let it go. Stop reminding people that they are who /what they are because of your help, let it go. RP Ntema