Social Bar

All the downfalls I had in my life I brought them myself. I used my kindness and my politeness to allowed certain things and certain people with no good intentions to enter my life. I refrained from using the word ‘NO” as part of my vocab. I was afraid and scared to hurt people around me. I was putting others first and me last.

And to get up and back in a game, I had to find ways to bring solutions to the problems I’ve created. The most important part I had to face, was to take a decision to get up and to make sure that I stay up. Part of my decision was to grow thick skin. I had to stop worrying about hurting people who don’t think twice before hurting me. I had to learn to put myself first before I put anyone who will enjoy seeing me last. I had to learn how to say NO without feeling the need to explain myself. I had to set my own standards that defines me and stick to them without fear of being criticized. I had to create my own path that suits me best. I had to learn to stay in my lane.

Maybe I am not the only one. Maybe you too are responsible for your downfall or for troubles that you find yourself in. Try to acknowledge things that you did wrong and change them. Who knows, maybe changing them will change everything for the best. But you will never change what you can’t acknowledge.

5 Comments

  1. minecraft

    Greetings from California! I’m bored to death at work so I decided to browse your blog on my iphone during lunch break.
    I love the info you present here and can’t wait to take a look when I get home.
    I’m amazed at how fast your blog loaded on my mobile ..

    I’m not even using WIFI, just 3G .. Anyhow, awesome blog!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Copyright © 2015 Pixel Theme Studio. All rights reserved.