Most of people are trapped in their marriages, because they thought all serious relationships should end with a marriage as the trophy to take home as a sign of victory. They can’t walk away, because they don’t want to be seen as failures. Day in, day out, many are crying and no one is listening, because they were told marriage is difficult, they should be patient, but no one told them that it should also help them to develop, progress and grow and not just difficult without any reward. RP Ntema

Most women tend to claim that they are “submissive and independent”. The truth of the matter is that, you can never be submissive and still be independent. The two contradict each other. Being submissive, you are under authority, but being independent you are not subjected to anyone’s authority. One more thing, you cannot say you are independent, if you are in a relationship that influences your behavior in a certain way. Being successful career wise, and being able to do things for yourself doesn’t mean independence. RP Ntema.